Book Review: The Power of Thank You by Joyce Meyer

By Jamie Maletta

Joyce Meyer is an American New York Times bestselling author, Bible teacher, and the face of Joyce Meyer Ministries, a Christian non-profit organization from Missouri. Joyce has written numerous books, guiding readers to work through various circumstances from a place of faith. According to the Joyce Meyer Ministries website, Joyce has written 130 books, with a number of those translated into 155 languages, over 37 million copies distributed worldwide free of charge, and millions of copies sold. Needless to say, I think she’s a big deal.

I love self-help books, and when I first chose something by Joyce Meyer, I had no idea her approach was rooted in Christianity. What’s funny is, I actually chose a different Joyce Meyer book (Authentically, Uniquely You), and happened to be sent the wrong title. It also sat for some time in my (always seemingly large) TBR pile before I picked it up. I believe that sometimes certain things or circumstances come to people when they need them most. Beautiful mishaps, one might say. I’ve been on a pretty significant personal journey lately, and not only was this not the original book I had chosen, but when I did pick it up and begin to read, it was during a time I needed to read those words most, months after I’d actually received it in the mail. I believe this was no coincidence.

Joyce explores the many benefits of thankfulness, being grateful, being generous, and expressing and feeling a sense of gratitude and contentment, and what that all means from a place of faith. She often pulls quotes and stories directly from the Bible and perfectly manages to “bring it back to the basics,” explaining how thankfulness, gratitude, generosity, contentment, and the like can be dated back to Biblical times and were always held with importance (and still should be). Joyce discusses how this way of being (or the lack of it) can affect your everyday life, and how powerful these traits are. She doesn’t skip over the fact that life can be hard, and there are times when thankfulness can feel more difficult, but she also addresses such situations with understanding and reason.

Personally, this book put a lot of things into perspective for me. Things I was aware of, and deep down thankful for, or maybe even presently aware I was thankful for, but life’s distractions had just pulled me away from the conscious thought of being thankful daily. I sometimes find myself forgetting just how grateful I should be, and how blessed I am. This book felt like a bit of an epiphany, like the wake-up call I needed, and I’m going to put what I’ve read into practice. I look forward to exploring what else Joyce has written.

Thank you to Penguin Random House for a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.

Book Review: All In by Mallory Ervin

By Jamie Maletta

You may have read my last review of Mallory Ervin’s Living Fully. I’ve never been so moved by a book, and I may just recommend it to everyone, forever. I’m not kidding. I, of course, ran to purchase her second book, All In, which pairs perfectly with the first. All In is the workbook accompaniment to Living Fully, and it maps out how to organize your wants and goals for the future in a healthy way.

With gorgeous and colourful pages, designs, and quotes, you’ll automatically find yourself in a happier mindset just flipping through the gorgeous interior. Mallory dives into the concept of visualizing things into your life, and what that really means. She speaks about clearly articulating what it is you truly desire and creating a visual representation of that in your space. The chapters contain workbook-style pages where you can create lists, mottos, or mantras. There are photos throughout, and also a reflection space to work through the chapter’s teachings. I often find that these topics of manifesting, visualizing, and creating vision boards are frequently thrown at us at such a high level that we go in with an idea of what a finished product looks like but without the tools to create something that can and will truly function. This is where Mallory sets herself apart. She’s created a space to teach the inner work needed to navigate the creation of a realistic vision of the life you’ve always wanted, from a realistic place, explaining step by step how to uncover your deepest desires at their root.

I will not lie, I could not bring myself to write on those beautiful pages, but with each task or reflection, I was able to get incredibly clear on what I truly want for the future, with the ability to cut out what would never serve me. This book is a nice and light read that you can work through as you see fit, and around whatever schedule you may have. I highly recommend reading Mallory’s first book Living Fully (I’m obsessed), then following up with All In within a reasonable time frame while everything’s fresh in your mind.

Whether you’re soul searching or just looking for a good read, Mallory’s books will not disappoint!

Book Review: Living Fully by Mallory Ervin

By Jamie Maletta

I’ve personally had a tough few years, and through therapy and soul searching, I really wanted to immerse myself in something good, something that would light my fire again. Finding Mallory Ervin’s Living Fully came to me exactly when it was supposed to.

Mallory writes this book from her own personal experiences of hitting rock bottom, and then committing to coming back to who she really is in order to begin living fully. This book isn’t a memoir but more of a commitment to help others who have found themselves lost after trauma, addiction, loss, or some other wrecking ball event. Its aim is help them rebuild themselves from a solid foundation. I have read more self-help/motivational books than I can count, and I can absolutely and confidently say: this one is different. THIS is the book I’ve been searching for.  

Mallory has a way of speaking directly to the reader. She builds a connection through the pages unlike any book I’ve read before. Part 1 (chapters one through six) is appropriately named “The Wake-Up Call,” with Part 2, “Staying Awake” (chapters seven through twelve), really focusing on mindset and the work that’s going to be required. Lastly, Part 3 (chapters thirteen through eighteen) is named “Living Fully,” and guides the reader toward how they can achieve this life in a sustainable way. These chapters brought to light the things that I’ve been struggling with, and why I’ve maybe looked the other way or called them something they weren’t.

Mallory recounts her successes, her missteps, the coping mechanisms she was using, and the beginning of her road to recovery, all the way to living fully. She really gets into the nitty-gritty of things, and although she speaks of her own journey, somehow she’s written words that speak directly to the reader and their own struggles, regardless of what they may be. Her process is founded in faith, but spiritual or not, I completely believe this book can be beneficial to anyone on a journey to finding their true and best self.

This book could honestly be read as a three-part self-help program (and one I’d pay good money for). The things I was able to reflect on and work through surpassed all my expectations, and I completely recommend this book to anyone and everyone interested in something such as this. A 20/10 for me!

Book Review: Oh Crap! Potty Training by Jamie Glowacki

By Jamie Maletta

If you’ve raised a toddler, or are raising a toddler, you’ve likely read up on the do’s and don’ts of potty training. Maybe you’ve read the various books, asked friends for advice, or scoured the internet for all the tips and tricks. From my own personal experience, I think you’re going to find a lot of information— and even more opinions— on the topic.

I, of course, was one of those moms who set out on a journey to find the perfect potty training plan. I asked experienced friends for advice and was told I absolutely needed to check out Jamie Glowacki’s Oh Crap! Potty Training book/program. I was skeptical, but the book had rave reviews, and so I loaded up my Kindle and began reading. From someone who followed this book and managed to potty train in under two weeks based on Jamie’s method, here’s my review:

My first recommendation: read Chapters 1 through 10 one to two weeks before you begin potty training. These chapters set the foundation for what you’re going to need to know in order to potty train your little human. It covers topics such as the readiness of a child, appropriate and ideal ages to potty train, how you might be contributing to potty training resistance, potty training regressions, myths and misconceptions, what to do and what not to do, verbal and (mostly] non-verbal cues, the issues you’re most likely to run into, getting your partner on board with the plan, and mentally preparing yourself to take on this journey with your child. Additionally, within these chapters, it walks through the seven steps and blocks of potty training Jamie has created to master this skill. If there’s something that absolutely should be known and covered prior to taking the leap, it’s in these first ten chapters.

I highly recommend reading the chapters to follow throughout the first three to five days of potty training. Any and all questions not answered in the first ten chapters will most likely be covered here. These are the Q&A type things you may be wondering (and honestly, will want in your back pocket). These chapters cover such topics as prior attempts at potty training (if this isn’t your very first attempt), being “kind of” potty trained vs. fully potty trained, the child who just isn’t getting it, the child that has morphed into a mini monster during the process (and what the heck to do), dealing with daycares and caregivers, the difficulties that may come with potty training children under twenty months or over three years, and the “reset” when things aren’t working or you’ve found yourself deviating from Jamie’s plan for one reason or another.

Lastly, the book covers “Special Circumstances” in Chapter 17, where there may truly be a valid reason for potty training struggles, which is outlined based on various circumstances. Upon finishing these chapters, you should be fully equipped to get started and master this potty training journey!

I took this potty-training business quite seriously, and took Jamie’s advice to heart as I read through each chapter. What I will say, as a disclaimer, is I felt Jamie mom-shames a bit for those of us who’ve waited until after age three to potty train. Whatever your reasoning for waiting may be, I disagree that it’s going to be this big power struggle after age three, as long as you, as the parent, are being consistent in your training. So I ask you to please not take this aspect of her book to heart, because the actual training and program is really very good.

If you give this book a go, and commit to the program, I truly believe any parent and any able-bodied/able-minded child can be successful with their journey to being potty trained. Believe in yourself, believe in your child, and take everyone’s opinions with a grain of salt.

Book Review: More Than a Mom by Ashley Carbonatto

By Jamie Maletta

I’m easily persuaded by Instagram recommendations (or should I say “bookstagram?”). You’ll often find my reviews stem from a book I’ve randomly come across via Instagram stories, and honestly, they rarely disappoint.

Ashley Carbonatto’s More Than a Mom is no exception. As many moms will tell you, motherhood can be all-consuming, and often we wake up one day and can’t remember who we are outside of being “a mom.” The sleepless nights, picky eaters, meals, snacks, baths, appointments, more snacks, extra-curricular activities, homework, housework, relationships—the list goes on, and it is a lot. So, what do we do about it?

Ashley’s book reads a little like a blog, a little like a how-to, and provides some actionable steps to maintain your sense of self throughout this beautiful and hectic journey we’ve found ourselves in. She shares her story about stepping away from the corporate world into full-time motherhood, the struggles of taking on this new title, and how we often downplay the title of being “just a mom.”  

The second chapter titled “Surviving not Thriving” dives into who we were, are, and that feeling of being “stuck” in this new journey, like we’re coming up short on all fronts. Throughout the book, Ashley walks us through various areas of our lives and how to improve them: from self-doubt and anxiety to unsolicited advice, bettering your relationship with your significant other, making new friends not only in motherhood, but in adulthood too, living with intention, and how to truly find and maintain your sense of self along the way. Ashley approached these topics with personal stories, some humour, and a sense of understanding, with some suggestions and ways of overcoming whatever you’re working through - all of which I find necessary when reading a self-help or motivational book.

Personally, I found the beginning of the book a little heavy on her personal stories and the feeling that I was reading a blog vs a book. However, once I reached the halfway point things picked up, and I found myself wanting to read more and more. The second half of the book felt a little more relatable, with more fun ideas and actionable steps that I could see myself taking and able to envision what those outcomes could look like for me. I felt motivated to make some changes and take some risks in my life and journey to learning who I am outside of motherhood upon finishing this book.

The feeling of optimism and excitement for what the future holds is exactly what I want out of a self-help or motivational book. It’s my favourite genre for this very reason, and Ashley’s More Than a Mom is one that I’ve added to my personal toolbox, and would recommend to any mom wanting something more for herself. We all deserve to be the best versions of ourselves, and taking care of ourselves is taking care of our families and loved ones around us.

Book Review: The Magic of Motherhood by Ashlee Gadd

By Jamie Maletta

Ashlee Gadd is the founder of the Coffee and Crumbs platform, a successful writer and author, as well as a co-host  of her Coffee and Crumbs podcast. I stumbled across Ashlee’s book The Magic of Motherhood via an Instagram story and quickly saved it to the top of my TBR wish list, not waiting long before caving and making my purchase.

The Magic of Motherhood really gave me the Chicken Soup book collection vibes. Each chapter is written by a mother, sharing her unique experience of motherhood. Some stories were cheerful, reminding me that childhood passes all too quickly. Other stories met me in the hard stuff that comes with raising these beautiful humans, while others told stories of the struggles of conceiving and bringing a baby into this world. No matter your journey into motherhood, or your perception and experience through the chapters of this beautiful phenomenon, each story is something you can relate to in varying degrees, reminding us that we aren’t alone.

As a mother of an (almost) three-year-old, I find myself in the trenches of toddlerhood. All any of us want to do is to raise kind, confident, and happy humans, and there’s no “how-to” book that gets passed along to you as you leave the hospital to prepare you for what these next years will bring. The Instagram reels, the perfectly coordinated photos, and the organic bento box lunches sometimes can leave us feeling like we have it all wrong.

Ashlee’s collection of essays truly digs into the nitty gritty of the things we just don’t see online—the life we left behind when we became mothers, the village it takes to raise children (that may or may not have ever showed up), the version of ourselves our children need, and the amount of grace we absolutely need to be giving to ourselves. There’s a little bit of everything, and as each chapter covers a different topic by a different author, it’s easy to pick this book up and set it back down (a mom must-have).

Whether you’re new to this journey, are in the middle of it all, or are a seasoned veteran of this thing called motherhood, I believe this book is one that can be enjoyed by all. I’m definitely interested in checking out more of Ashlee’s writing, what the podcast is all about, and if there are more books on the horizon! 10 stars for me!

Book Review: Woman Last Seen by Adele Parks

By Jamie Maletta

Adele Parks is one of the top-selling women’s fiction writers in the UK, selling a whopping 4 million-plus books over the last 22 years. Generally a nonfiction fan myself, I’ve been trying to step out of the box, specifically enjoying psychological thrillers that keep me on the edge of my seat throughout. This was my first experience reading Adele Parks’s work, and I was excited and ready to jump into this book!

Woman Last Seen introduces us to Leigh, a beautiful and fun-loving woman, who falls in love with Mark and his two young sons, inevitably marrying Mark and stepping into the “mom” role following the death of Mark’s first wife. Leigh loves her family and is a devoted wife and mother, loving and raising Mark’s two sons as her own. With no known reasoning, Leigh goes missing and finds herself chained in an unknown location, being starved and beaten, with no way out. Leigh recounts her life and what may have led to this, who may have put her there, and wonders if she’ll ever get out. Mark and the boys struggle with Leigh’s disappearance and the inconceivable information that is brought to light following Leigh’s absence. We’re taken on a journey through her life, while her family deals with the unthinkable.

The author really builds a storyline around the backstory and lives of the main characters in the beginning of the novel that felt a little unnecessary in achieving the connection needed to understand each character for the purpose of the book. Once I got into the storyline itself though (around the halfway point), I really started to enjoy it, wanting to read as much as I could. I loved the twists and turns, thinking I had it figured out, but then being pulled in a different direction wondering what would happen next! There were edge-of-your-seat moments, and plot twists that were exciting to read, which is exactly what I look for in a good thriller! For the amount of backstory and time put into the moments surrounding Leigh’s disappearance, though, it wrapped up quickly and suddenly, leaving some loose ends and question marks. I felt no closure in finishing the book. There needed to be more detail and wrap-up as to what happens. I was hopeful for a sequel, thinking maybe the author had decided to release the second part of this story in another book, but it appears her 2022 release One Last Secret is unrelated to her last. I can’t help but feel a little disappointed. That being said, it was an entertaining read and I definitely believe there’s an audience for this book.

Thank you to Harlequin Books for a complimentary copy in exchange for an honest review.

Book Review: Brave, Beautiful and Baring it All by Rhyanna Watson

By Jamie Maletta

Content warning: suicide 

I’m a sucker for self-help, better living, and motivation-style books. I’m also heavily influenced by “bookstagram” in all its glory. While browsing through Instagram stories I happened to come across someone reading Brave, Beautiful, and Baring it All by author, yogi, and health and well-being consultant (to name only a few areas of her expertise), Rhyanna Watson. I wasn’t familiar with Watson’s work, but her book had me intrigued, and I quickly added it to my TBR list. 

The premise of this book is to learn how to live your most authentic life, whatever that means to you. Learning to see perfection through the imperfections, freeing your inner child, opening your heart, and loving life. It’s self-help meets how-to! Watson is heavily involved in yoga, and a lot of her book referenced yoga as a method, which I didn’t quite relate to. I also felt some chapters were a little repetitive in that they shared the same advice worded a little differently on a few occasions. 

At the same time, I did enjoy the book and the positivity it exudes. I felt that the book provided the space to really take a look at my inner struggles and what to do with them. I also found myself realizing some unconscious and less positive habits I have and how I could do better by facing them. I really enjoyed working through these topics in a positive way, and I felt good having read this book. I’ve since started following Rhyanna Watson on Instagram (@openheartscanunite) and I’m interested in learning more about who she is and what she does. I believe surrounding yourself with positive people, even when their interests may differ from your own, can benefit your well-being tremendously. 

If you’re looking for a quick read that will have you thinking about your thoughts, habits, needs, and aspirations to live a better life, then this is a great book and place to start! Stay happy, friends! 

Book Review: The Audacity by Katherine Ryan

By Jamie Maletta

Canadian comedian and actress Katherine Ryan dives into book writing with her debut memoir The Audacity. Katherine is best known for her risqué stand-up comedy, as well as her (truly hilarious) show The Duchess, which I shamelessly binge-watched in one evening. Don’t come at me; put the kids to bed and jump into this Netflix original. LOVE. And Katherine, if you happen to come across this review I have one question for you: WHERE IS SEASON TWO? 

Now let’s get to the book! I won’t lie, I had never heard of Katherine Ryan prior to receiving this book from her publisher. (Shame, as I too am from Ontario, and have spent some time in her hometown of Sarnia). I quickly realized I’ve been living under a rock as everyone knows who this woman is. I opened the book with an open mind and no specific idea of what to expect and was not disappointed. She’s hilarious. 

This memoir acts as a how-to guide, based on her life experiences, with each chapter appropriately named “How to Skip Town for Good,” “How to Get Plastic Surgery,” “How to Survive Controversy,” and so on. She recounts her childhood, teenage years, and early adulthood navigating life, and leaving nothing to the imagination. We learn early on that Katherine is unique, stands out, and has a confidence that most of us don’t find until our thirties. She dreams big and gives her all to everything she sets her mind to. From acting in local theatre as a child, to being crowned “Miss Hooters Toronto,” to auditioning in music videos, and finally to taking the stage with her comedy shows. She recounts it all, leaving no cringe-worthy story out and keeping it 100% real. 

A topic she covered that I truly enjoyed was her experience as a woman in comedy, a profession and industry heavily dominated by men. She recounts the struggles, the hoops women are expected to jump through in comparison to their male counterparts, and what it takes to “make it.” I feel that this is a topic so many women can relate to, regardless of their profession, and I loved her approach to and thoughts on the subject. It’s a topic that needs to be talked about more, and I’m glad it was included. 

If you’re conservative in nature, this book may not be your thing. Nothing is off limits, which is something I personally loved about it. It’s funny and raunchy, with no boundaries surrounding the topics discussed. If you can read it for what it is, I think it’s a book that you’ll truly enjoy as a memoir-meets-comedy-meets-how-to! Grab your copy today! 

Thank you so much to Penguin Random House for a complimentary copy in exchange for an honest review! 

Book Review: You by Caroline Kepnes

By Jamie Maletta

Content warning: Domestic violence, obsession, manipulation

I won’t lie: I have binge-watched every episode of the Netflix phenomenon You since I first came across it. I’ve seen every episode, and I’m currently (impatiently) waiting for the next season. Since we’re confessing dirty little secrets: I didn’t realize this on-screen masterpiece was an adaptation of the book series by Caroline Kepnes. I had no idea. I opened the perfectly wrapped Christmas gift to discover there are actually three books in this series and decided the first You would be my debut read of 2022. 

Diving into chapter one, we’re introduced to bookstore worker “Joe,” who we immediately realize has an obsession with women. There isn’t one thing about a good-looking woman that he’s within the vicinity of that Joe can’t contort into believing was intended for his pleasure. The way she looks, what she talks about, her body language—he’s completely convinced himself that these women want him. He absolutely believes he’s above everyone else and any of his personal downfalls he contorts into a justification to give him an advantage over others. 

When a young, unsuspecting Guinevere Beck (known as “Beck”) walks into his bookstore, the obsession becomes too real. He must get to know her in every which way possible, and he stops at nothing to do so. He learns the ins and outs about her schedule, family, and friends. He ensures she believes the many coincidences he’s corralled to be placed between the two of them appear organic and natural. It’s no surprise that when they inevitably end up dating, he believes it’s for the long haul and that everything he’s done is out of pure love and dedication. When things begin to unravel, and he can no longer control every situation, he begins to “fix” what is in their way. He will do anything for love, and Joe’s dedication knows no limits. 

I believe all of us know a “Joe,” or have been with or known someone to have been with a “Joe.” Maybe for you, it’s a feminine “Joe”—you get what I’m saying. As such, I believe this book could be incredibly triggering for anyone who’s experienced physical or psychological domestic abuse. The writing really gets into the mind of the manipulator, the narcissist, the person who believes every action they make is justified, no matter the effect or damage to their partner. Although this book is very well written, and one you just need to keep reading to know what’s going to happen next, I don’t believe that it’s for everyone. Some topics, some content, are worth leaving in the past. 

As an aside to my review, if you’re experiencing domestic violence, please reach out to a family member, friend, or professional for help. Too many individuals suffer in silence, and it’s time to end that stigma. You are a survivor. There is a way out and a life that awaits you on the other side of domestic violence. Please check out https://www.canada.ca/en/public-health/services/health- promotion/stop-family-violence/services.html for a list of resources in your area. 

Book Review: The Fishy Squishy Goonies of Wabigoon Lake by Mardi-Lee Plomp

By Jamie Maletta

My son received The Fishy Squishy Goonies of Wabigoon Lake as a Christmas gift, adorably accompanied by a stuffed goon-y goon “Goonie” monster, and a concretion directly from Northwestern Ontario’s Wabigoon Lake itself. It was such a sweet and fun gift with little treasures to hold as you read the book.  

The story talks about the lake, the swimming, the fishing, and of course the creatures of the goon-y goon! Adorably described as disgusting yet somehow cute and lovable, the “Goonies” live at the bottom of the waters where they are growing very concerned about the trash, plastic, and rising pollution building up in their lake. Trying their best to keep the lake clean, the Goonies reluctantly tidy, whisk away pop cans, collecting lures and old tires throughout their day. The Goonies are very proud of their lake and tell stories about the lake in the winter and about the shallow waters’ concretions, and of course, they invite the reader to clean up some of the garbage the next time they visit! 

This was such a sweet story, and I loved the added lesson surrounding pollution that was written on a level that children can understand. Each page has adorable illustrations, with the story displayed in large font, making reading a little easier for the new book lover in your life. 

I’ve passed by this lake numerous times while visiting my parents, and I love the local and close-to-home aspect! My son is only two, but once he’s old enough to understand that the book is about that lake, we will definitely make a trip out there (and, of course, make sure to pick up some trash during our visit)! I always love a local book, and this is one I feel the little reader in your life will truly enjoy! 

Book Review: Unfudge Yourself by Linsey Nogueira Flannery

By Jamie Maletta

Unfudge Yourself: A Parent’s Guide to Happiness is just that. Geared towards mamas, this book was a perfect and quick read that put a lot of common situations many of us face as mothers into perspective—an “outside-of-the-box-looking-in” kind of view. 

When you’re in the trenches of motherhood, everything can feel overwhelming. From what to feed your kids, to what to feed yourself if you get a second to do so, how to arrive anywhere on time, how to keep the house clean, your marriage/relationship alive, all while attempting to resemble a semi-functioning human. (I’m still working on that last one.) We put so many things on the backburner in order to function on the day to day that everyone inevitably begins to suffer the consequences. The biggest question is: how do we balance it all and live a happy and fulfilled life?  

Linsey Nogueira Flannery is a mother of two who has asked herself the very same kinds of questions. Sharing many (hilarious) personal and relatable stories and some tips and suggestions for balancing it all, Linsey offers what just might be the refreshing perspective you’ve been looking for. The book is funny, relatable, encouraging, and practical, and each chapter ends with a small “homework” task in relation to the topic that’s being covered. It was a great way to reflect and review some habits that I just don’t love, with the tools and positive encouragement to do so. I found myself truly engaged in the topics and really enjoyed what the overall book had to offer.  

Clearly, I loved the book! I felt so refreshed and motivated having read it, and I’m so happy to have come across this one! I think there are seasons of motherhood where we lose ourselves, function on autopilot, and just manage to get by. I also believe that this phenomenon is very common—we just don’t talk about it. We binge the highlight reels of Instagram, the bright and cheerful gentle-parenting TikTok videos and find ourselves feeling like we’re coming up short. To know someone’s life in an Instagram-worthy picture, or minute-long video is impossible, and I can guarantee we’re all experiencing some (if not all) of what Linsey Nogueira Flannery is talking about. I think it’s worth the read, whether you’re struggling or feel like you have this wonderful, chaotic, messy yet beautiful thing called motherhood down. We can all use a healthy dose of self-reflection and checking in with ourselves from time to time is such a great habit to form! Add Unfudge Yourself to your TBR pile today and see for yourself what a little self-care can do!

Book Review: If You Give A Moose A Muffin by Laura Numeroff Illustrated by Felicia Bond

By Jamie Maletta

We’ve all heard of Laura Numeroff’s very popular book, If You Give a Mouse a Cookie, and her numerous books to follow such as Happy Valentine’s Day Mouse (my son’s first love), If You Take a Mouse to School, and If You Give a Mouse a Brownie. (Only to name a few!) These books are absolutely darling and beloved by many since Laura Numeroff’s debut in 1985.  

If You Give a Moose a Muffin is one of my son’s very favourite books. With large, bright, and colourful pages and a sentence or two on each page to keep their little minds engaged, this is the perfect book to add to your child’s collection. The writing is done in such a way that easily describes the story, and the illustrations go right along with it. All to be easily understood by a younger age group while still being interesting enough for the 3-7 age range (as appropriately suggested). This sweet and silly story will have the young reader in your life happily amused as the moose is given muffin after muffin, to only want more muffins, with an array of shenanigans that ensue during their adventure to obtain yet another! I have now read this book many times, and I don’t tire of this adorable story!

Although this book is one of the classics, first released in 1991, I find myself just as engaged now as I would have been as a child. I think we sometimes forget about our favourite childhood books, and when they resurface into our lives, it’s such a wonderful and nostalgic experience to read them again to someone we love. Laura Numeroff has so many really great books, from board books to hard and soft covers to choose from, and each one is adorable in its own way. I highly recommend If You Give a Moose a Muffin and the many other books within the collection by Laura Numeroff, as they truly are such a special read!

Book Review: We Were Never Here by Andrea Bartz

By Jamie Maletta

Content Warning: Sexual assault, suicide, manipulation, and abuse. 

I’ve been wanting to experiment more with fiction novels vs. my go-to nonfiction pieces—memoirs, motivational self-help books, and better living “type” categories. We Were Never Here by Andrea Bartz has been displayed and advertised on all major platforms. It’s been featured in Reese’s Book Club and on number one bestsellers lists everywhere you look. My first thought? A safe bet. 

Jumping into chapter one we meet two best friends, Emily and Kristen, who have embarked on an annual fun and adventurous backpacking trip through Chile. During this trip, things take a turn for the worst, and after a traumatic altercation, they are both involved in a self-defence murder for the second year in a row—again. The first murder had happened only a year prior, and there was no way that this kind of history could be repeating itself. Or could it? Did it? The girls do their best to cover their tracks, returning to America in an attempt to forget the past and move forward, but as the shocking details and obsessions start to unravel, the media begins to cover the murder. We are taken on a journey through the girls’ friendship and their history. We learn quickly that Kristen’s history is much different than she’s ever let on, and some suspicious situations and unusual behaviours begin to surface. But is this Emily overthinking the whole situation? Have the traumatic experiences abroad made her question every detail of their lives, making her search for problems that don’t exist? 

I added this book to my Kindle during a very long road trip thinking I’d get a good jump start at some point during the car ride if there was time (#travellingwithatoddler). What I was not expecting was to binge-read the entire book, periodically closing it to take a break, and immediately giving in to more. Thankfully, my toddler was happy playing (for the most part), and I could jump right back in. I just couldn’t sit still with my thoughts, wondering what was going to happen next. 

This novel is a psychological thriller like I’ve never experienced, and I felt like Bartz had me on the edge of my seat from start to finish. Just when I thought I’d possibly figured it out, or knew what to expect next, I’d be thrown a curveball. I loved it. Not only is it incredibly addicting in the way it’s written—leaving you wanting more following each chapter—but the chapters aren’t too long, preventing story overload. It’s laid out perfectly to be indulged in all at once, or as you have time. 

I am absolutely adding more books by Andrea Bartz to my must-read list, and I totally recommend We Were Never Here to anyone who loves a good thriller! I’m so happy this is where I began my new fiction journey and I look forward to reading so much more by Andrea Bartz! 

Book Review: Wildflower by Drew Barrymore

By Jamie Maletta

We all love Drew Barrymore. Can I say that? Is there anyone out there who doesn’t love Drew Barrymore? I didn’t have to read her book to know I’d love it. I was definitely expecting a wholesome memoir, and while Drew exudes the all-American girl-next-door vibe, the woman has an adventurous, rebellious, middle-finger-to-the-sky side that we just haven’t seen—and, to be honest, I love it.  

Drew Barrymore’s Wallflower is a tell-all-memoir beginning from her early and extremely unique childhood to her preteen, teenage, and adult years. Going back as far as her pre-E.T. days, Drew describes her life as a young child of a single mother and the simplicities of that time that brought her joy. She doesn’t skip the hard stuff either, describing the difficulties of growing up with a busy parent trying to make their own way into Hollywood, a “hippie” father that comes and goes from her life, a wild career at such a young age, and the pressures of being the breadwinner of the family. Drew goes on to speak about her time in rehab, her time spent institutionalized, and what very few of us know about her early teenage years. At a time when social media wasn’t at the forefront of news distribution, Drew managed to fly under the radar with her erratic behaviour, and she basically sums it up to life in the ‘90s. Cheers! 

Hard work, harder lessons, and following some awesome stories all accounted for in her book, Drew writes about how it felt “starting over” in her thirties as a single woman that knew she wanted more from life and the journey she took to get there. Committing to charity work, taking her career and relationships seriously, and meeting her now-husband, having children, and balancing a fire hot career—Drew includes it all: the good, the bad, the ugly, and the even better, and it does not disappoint.   

Wallflower is an easy and not-too-serious read, with each chapter telling a story of a different time in Drew’s life. The writing is beautiful and descriptive, leaving nothing to the imagination, which is exactly what I want from a tell-all memoir! If you’re a fan of Drew Barrymore, you are going to love how well this book is written, and I think even a little surprised at the honesty throughout. It did not disappoint, and I totally recommend you add this one to your TBR pile today! 

Book Review: Uncommon Sense by Adam Mardero

By Jamie Maletta

I agreed to review Adam Mardero’s memoir Uncommon Sense: An Autistic Journey without any previous knowledge about the author or book. I was unsure what to expect or what my thoughts and feelings would be after reading it, but if I could review this book in one word, that word would be “incredible.” I could feel Mardero’s passion for writing and advocacy as I read each page, and I couldn’t put it down. The book was so well written, and there’s such a need for this type of advocacy in today’s world. This book hit all the marks for me. 

Mardero recounts his childhood, youth, and journey into adulthood navigating an Asperger’s syndrome diagnosis (which today falls under autism spectrum disorder, or ASD, as I’ve come to learn from Mardero’s book). From childhood struggles and teenage angst to dating, working, adulthood and an incredible university education, Mardero doesn’t leave the reader wondering as he dives headfirst into every stage, every struggle, and every victory. His words are honest and powerful, bringing awareness to the subject that truly needs to be heard. I felt like I knew Adam as I read each page. He’s your neighbour, the friend you grew up with, and the guy you want to know more about as you turn each page. His writing draws the reader in, inviting them to sit alongside him throughout this personal journey. I couldn’t put the book down—I didn’t want to. 

Having minimal previous knowledge surrounding Asperger’s syndrome or “ASD”, I find myself wanting to learn more, do more, and pass this book along after reading Mardero’s story. The chapters aren’t too long, which I always appreciate, and they’re written in a way we can all relate. Mardero’s story is real, raw, and a journey from which I think we can all learn something. The writing is so, so good, and I’ll be (im)patiently waiting for Mardero’s next release. It’s in my must-read pile, and I’m not even sure it exists yet. I’m absolutely confident this won’t be the last we see of Adam Mardero. The world needs more.

Book Review: Everybody, Always by Bob Goff

By Jamie Maletta

I came across author Bob Goff’s Everybody, Always on an Instagram story. I promptly messaged the poster asking if it was any good, and she couldn’t say enough. Without anything else to go on and some faith in the feedback, I was sold! 

I read through the first chapter and quickly realized the book is a Christian self-help/motivational read, which I hadn’t realized, but I was definitely intrigued! This was one book I actually had a hard time putting down, and I honestly feel motivated to be a better person having read it. Although the context is that of the Christian faith, I believe anyone could take the overall message and apply it to their daily life, regardless of faith or spiritual preference. 

Goff jumps into story mode in chapter one. He does an incredible job of recalling stories and experiences from his own life and imperfectly reflects on how he approached various situations and why. His overarching message throughout the book is to “become love” and express love through action to those around you—especially those that are hard to love, hard to like, and are unlike ourselves and our inner circles. It’s easy to express love to the ones we already love—the ones that hold the same values and share similar lifestyles. Goff teaches us that this love isn’t enough and that the world needs so much more. 

The stories are so well written, interesting, and often humorous, and I can’t help but love the writing in this book. Goff has a number of books out, and you can bet your bottom dollar I’ll be adding them to my must-read list! 

Book Review: Eat, Pray, #FML by Gabrielle Stone

By Jamie Maletta

Gabrielle Stone is an American actress, director, and author. Her newest book Eat, Pray, #FML hit shelves in June 2019, documenting her adventures through a divorce, a short-lived and intense romance, and a solo trip abroad. 

Gabrielle begins her story by unraveling her marriage and inevitable divorce. She soon finds herself in the arms of an stranger, whom she falls head-over-heels for. Their relationship is intense and becomes very serious very quickly. They book a romantic month-long backpacking adventure through Europe that he just so happens to bail out of only 48 hours prior to their departure. With nothing to lose, Gabrielle decides to embark on a trip of a lifetime with or without her new love, meeting new friends, eating and drinking (so much drinking) to her heart’s content, all while trying to get to the bottom of who she truly is and what she truly wants. Crazy adventures ensue, and revelations are made as she hops across Europe in Eat, Pray, #FML.

Personally, I found this book very surface-level. It’s apparent the author attempted to achieve depth, and it just wasn’t there for me. The writing was very much like a “teenager trying desperately to justify their actions,” and I found myself wanting to comfort this woman or provide her with some sense: “You don’t need a man. You keep advocating for this but contradict the very point you’re attempting to make!” It was a little frustrating, to say the least.

I believe this book may be of more interest to the 19-21 age range audience looking for an easy and adventurous read. It contains mature themes, a lot of partying, and cool adventures. The “fun” and adventurous aspect was not lost on me, and I do believe this could be a fun read for the younger-than-me audience! (I say at my ripe old age of 33!) 

Stone’s next book, The Ridiculous Misadventures of a Single Girl, is set to release September 2021, and I find myself intrigued enough to check it out, and include it in a future review! 

Book Review: Untamed by Glennon Doyle

By Jamie Maletta

Content warning: references to alcoholism, addiction, and negative body image/eating disorders. 

Glennon Doyle is an American author, speaker, and activist, doing incredible work with her all-women run non-profit Together Rising, which has raised more than $16 million for women, children, and families in crisis. 

Her memoir Untamed is a self-help meets motivational read that will have you looking inside yourself and questioning your pre-conceived thoughts, beliefs, and actions. 

Doyle takes us on a journey through her early life of addiction, bulimia and alcoholism, pregnancy, marriage, and actively attempting to brush her true self—“her Knowing”—under the rug while self-medicating with alcohol and desperately trying to lead a picture-perfect life. The moment she lays eyes on her (now) wife, everything begins to untangle. A switch goes off, and she realizes she can no longer live a life hiding behind a bottle, a facade, and begins digging deep into who she was always meant to be. Glennon is always growing, always evolving, and brings such a human element to her amazing life. 

This book will leave you reflecting on your own life—wanting to do better, be better, and to respect your own “Knowing.” I love a good self-help book, and I’m so excited for what Doyle has in store for us next! I completely recommend this book to anyone and everyone who needs or wants a little push, a little nudge, towards a better life, a better future. This book will not disappoint. Five stars.